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Foreplay is meant to increase the sexual arousal of the partners before sexual intercourse and is an essential part of great sex.

There are 5 great tips to making your foreplay more effective, and increase the gratification of intercourse later, and here they are.

What Foreplay Does

Foreplay is meant to break down the barriers between couples, lower their inhibitions, and give an emotional sense of well-being.

It also assists in the mans erection and the womans vaginal lubrication process.

When Does Foreplay Begin?

There are many actions that can take place prior to actual foreplay. These include romantic (or sexual) conversation, compliments of sexual or romantic nature, various body language signs, or other non-verbal indications. Whatever has been done, when the couple holds hand (general body contact), gives and accepts a kiss, foreplay is said to have begun.

However when some serious kissing has begun, or stroking (massage) or similar, foreplay will lead, hopefully to successful sexual union.

The Five Best Tips of Foreplay

Tip 1 Search for and concentrate on your partners erogenous zones.

In a woman they may be the nape of her neck, the underside of her arm, the right side of the calf near the knee, the foot in general, find out where they are, and lightly but persistently stimulate them.

For a man, his lips, nipples, lower back, and especially the inside of his thighs moving away from the penis and scrotum.

Tip 2 Do not go immediately to your partners sexual organs.

Remain far away, or if you go close, not to close. Tease and be busy near by, but at the beginning of foreplay its best to avoid the genital areas.

Tip 3 Do not remain silent.

Let your partner know they are beautiful or handsome; that what they are doing excites you, or letting you do them excites you.

Tip 4 If available spend sufficient time on or around your partners nipples. The effect can and does induce the body to release various hormones and enzymes that are enhancing the sexual act.

Be gentle and do not cause any pain as the nipples are always sensitive.

Tip 5 Include Oral Sex.

Oral sex is by far the greatest tool available in foreplay, and where a woman is concerned, if done properly, can give her a great amount of pleasure, prior to intercourse.

For a man, his erection is strengthened, and his arousal level is raised higher and higher as the oral sex is conducted.

How Long Should Foreplay Last?

Considering it will take about 20 alone for a woman to orgasm from cunnilingus, the entire foreplay can and should last about 45 minutes.

The secret is that the longer the foreplay, the more fulfilling the overall sexual experience for both you and your partner so its important to spend time on it